She saved her family from starvation and death by embracing her late husband’s profession. In the process she broke gender stereotypes to become India’s first female barber.
From India’s first woman bartender, Shatbhi Basu, to India’s first female wine sommelier, Sovna Puri, the country’s women are making a conscious effort to pursue their passions and careers, breaking gender stereotypes and crashing the glass ceiling.
But, 40 years ago, there was a traditional woman who did not even know what gender stereotyping was. All she wanted to do was lead a quiet life with her family in a village. But when life threw her a challenge, she gathered the courage to take it on, rising to the occasion to enter a man’s world so she could feed her hungry daughters. This is the story of Shantabai Shripati Yadav, India’s first female barber.
Shantabai was married when she was just 12 years old. Her father was a barber and so was her husband Shripati.Shripati was earning well from his barber shop and could take care of his family. But in 1984, when Shantabai’s eldest daughter was 8 years old and youngest one was not even a year old, Shripati died of a massive heart attack.
For three months, Shantabai worked as a farm labourer for eight hours a day. She would receive 50 paisa at the end of the day for her back breaking efforts, not enough money to feed her four daughters.
The government paid her Rs.15,000 for the piece of land that her husband owned. Shantabai used the money to pay off Shripati’s debts. But she still struggled to feed her children. For three months, she toiled in the farms. On some days she managed to get two meals for her family but on other days there was nothing. Finally, she lost heart and decided she was going to commit suicide along with her four daughters.
Haribhau Kadukar became her saviour. When he came to know about Shantabai’s ordeal, he suggested she take up her husband’s profession. After Shripati’s death there were no barbers in the village and Shantabai could earn well like her husband had.
Haribhau became Shantabai’s first customer. Initially, the villagers found what she was doing ludicrous. They mocked her and called her names. But nothing was going to destroy Shantabai’s spirit now that she had decided to take on a barber’s role. She would leave her kids with her neighbours, the Gadiwadars, and walk 4-5 kms everyday to go to nearby villages in search of more customers.Soon, the residents of Kadal, Hidadugi and Narewadi villages, where there were no barbers, became her customers.The news spread and Shantabai’s story was covered by local and regional newspapers like Tarun Bharat.Way back in 1984, Shantabai used to charge Rs. 1 for giving a haircut and shave.
Soon, she started shaving cattle too, for which she would charge Rs. 5.In 1985, she got money from the government to build a house under the Indira Gandhi Awas Yojna.
Shantabai married off all her daughters without taking financial help from anyone. She is a grandmother of 10 today.“There is a salon in the village. All the youngsters go there. I get only a few old customers. I charge Rs. 50 for a shave and haircut now and Rs. 100 for shaving the cattle. So I make around Rs.300 to Rs.400 per month and get Rs.600 from the government. That’s actually not enough but I have fought before to rise out of difficult circumstances and can do so again,” she says.
Haribhau passed away in 2008 at the age of 99. His great grandson, Baban Patil, still visits Shantabai regularly to check on her well being.
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